What should I do?

Question

I’m on my period but my boyfriend wants to have sex. I wear tampons all day so I’m dry down there. My boyfriend just try’s to stick it in even though I tell him it hurts really bad and he could rip me. He fingers me for maybe 2 minutes but I’m still dry and he gets mad when I tell him I’m not wet enough for him to put it in. What should I do?

Answer

If you don’t want to, then don’t. If you do, try lube. It might help. Don’t let him force his way tho. That’s messed up.

Answer

Lube!!!!! Lube is great for when you’re dry and it helps to reduce friction and ripping. You can use condoms with lube or just lube by itself. You could also use spit, if you’re into that.

Answer

What I’ve found to be helpful is taking the tampon out a bit ahead of time if you are consenting. And then add lube.

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