So my husband has not so secretly been nagging me and yes I mean nagging about being physical. Not sex but he said to me “something to take care of him” now I’m all for being with my husband we have two boys together but I have communicated countless times that I’m just not ready I’m not sleeping well and my toddler has had a rough transition being an older sibling. So he’s all mad at me because he had a dream that I was sleeping with someone else and he has been short and rude kind of a butt head really for a week since he’s been off work. since the birth of our boy. He has spent money we don’t have because he is bored and he’s been kinda mean and not helping my baby blues. Any advice?

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So to clarify I don’t know if I’m in the wrong he said to me that because I’m breastfeeding and my chest is out all the time it’s hard for him not to get excited and he made the comment earlier,”it doesn’t matter anymore because I know nothing will happen.” I’m just feeling like he’s trying to guilt me or something and when I told him about it he got all mad and he says I’m making it about me and turning on him or whatever that means and he said that because I sit in the rocking chair and don’t ever talk about anything but the baby that we aren’t connecting and he doesn’t see the point in working through this discussion.