Should I feel guilty for not getting an abortion when my didn't want another kid? I'm 17 weeks now and this pregnancy was a surprise since I took plan b. I've gotten so much heat about how selfish I am for not listening to what he wants and how I can barley take care of my son. It's hard when you don't have any help but I'm doing the steps necessary to better my financial situation before this baby gets here. After going through a miscarriage on 2012, this was just something I felt that I couldn't handle on my conscious