Y'all my daughter (2 1/2) is at my mothers today, my regular baby sitter had jury duty. Here is the issue, my mom and her husband smoke in the house (in their bathroom, idk maybe even in the living room when they aren't expecting company). But the smell lingers all over. I try to convince myself that it'll help build her immune system, when we all know the truth and its complete opposite. I hate putting my daughter in harms way, my heart and lungs are aching for her today. When i pick her up everything we dropped off with her will now have an oder.... one grandma (MIL) is a drunk, and drinks and drives all the time but wants my little every day shes not working. The other grandma smokes all the time and I have to beg for her to watch her for 2 hours(my mom). My mom has never had my little sleep over(not like I would want my little to sleep over in that smoke filled house. My babysitter offers more then my mom. Sighhhh I wish I had careing, responsible family members. The grandmas are the only family my husband and I have. My family lives in NJ, his family lives 1 hr 30 min away to far for babysitting for a day. Our best friends are considered her uncles and aunts more then her real uncle and aunts. Ok my rant is over, my heart just aches for my kid. 😪😪😫😫