Is it normal for my bf to ignore me

We have been together nearly a year, and we argue pretty much weekly. He can’t seem to ever just listen to what I’m saying and talk about why I’m feeling low. He has to argue or tell me I’m pushing him away by doing this and then he will ignore me for a few days. It’ll normally then be me who will message him to sort it out. It doesn’t ever seem to stress him that we don’t talk for days yet it’s constantly upsetting/stressing me to the point I feel unhealthy. I just don’t know what to do, he won’t listen so it’s just going round in circles any advice? 😓