I feel like my mother has a problem with me and is always trying to start fights with me .... It seems like no matter what I do she always finds something wrong with it... as an example she doesn’t lift a finger in this house if she does it’s barely anything I’m always cleaning up after her she will let the dishes pile up for days and laundry and then I will end up doing it because it is so bad and it bothers me !! And let’s say I didn’t do it the way she particularly likes it there is a blow up like meanwhile she doesn’t do crap I mean she could have just done it herself if it’s going to be like that I constantly feel like she’s trying to bring me down with everything I say she always has to be right nobody can tell this woman anything without her thinking it’s an argument 💀 anyways what really did it for me which is the 🍒 on top earlier I was sitting in my dads office charging my computer writing down a grocery list I need and she barged in there and tells me to get out of there and why am I in his office when my dad could care less and starts getting in my face ??? When I was minding my business I never said a word to her or anything for her to be so angry and she starts going off on me like what in the world I tell her I’m trying to charge my computer and make a grocery list but god forbid we have that so she starts to ask if I’m hiding something because I nicely say I want to be left alone like what is this ladies problem !! I never thought I would say this but I can’t stand my own mother our relationship is terrible to the point where it makes me want to move far away and never come back and I really wouldn’t care if I saw her again 😭 I currently can’t move out due to financial reasons cause I’m a full time student atm but omg I’m serious I want to cry as I type this I’m starting to hate my own mother and I never thought the day would come where I’d have to say this ... if it helps any I’m 18 and I plan on moving out as soon as I get the funds 😭😭 but someone pls help how do you deal with negative people who constantly want to argue I swear it’s like she thrives off of arguments