Husband thinks I’m crazy

Hi ladies,

My husband thinks I’ve gone absolutely mad. I’m 12DPO and I have the worst nipple pain ( it’s mainly only my left nipple). It feels like someone is poking it with a needle. I’ve been having this pain for 3 days now. This has never happened to me before. I know it’s a symptom of AF— but it’s never happened to me. I haven’t been able to sleep these past few days because the pain was really bad. I also have been extremely exhausted lately for no good reason. My lower back has been killing me and if it wasn’t for the negative hpt test I took this morning I would swear I’m pregnant. I showed him that my left nipple is extremely hard and gets hard randomly throughout the day. It’s also really red. He thinks I or my body is making this up because I want to be pregnant so bad. I feel like I have to lie about things now because every time I bring up how something hurts or feels off, he brushes it off or makes me feel like I’m crazy. I don’t want to make him sound like a villain because he’s a great guy and I’m sure he just doesn’t want me to have my hopes crushed if I’m not pregnant.

Ugh I’m so emotional right now and I never get emotional. I just want to stay in bed and cry. I don’t really have a question.

I just needed to rant. Any one experience something similar with their SO?

Thank you for reading xx

EDIT: Thanks for responding Jane. You’re absolutely right! The other night my nipple hurt really bad and I told him, and he was like “let me see to make sure they look okay” and I thought he cared about my pain, but he got an erection and kept telling me how horny he was. This really pissed me off. I was like, I’m in so much pain! Grr. I’ll stop telling him about it. I would probably get annoyed too if I was in his shoes