Does your SO know that they don’t make you orgasm?

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Been together for over 8 years and I honestly didn’t even know I had never orgasmed (ever) until we took an extended break and met a guy that pleased me like I had never been pleased before. Well we’ve been back together over 2 years and now I crave that feeling, and can only get it while I masturbate (which I just found out how to make myself climax within the last year).
He’s super sensitive and I’m horrible with wording things and I just don’t want to hurt his feelings/pride. Sex definitely feels good just sometimes I’d like to climax too 👀 
How would you go about having this sort of convo?

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There is no other way to get you there unless you tell him.

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I couldn’t imagine not orgasming during sex... I am not able to climax just from sex (normal for a large amount of woman) so I have to stimulate myself while we are having sex, but he always makes sure I orgasm. Unless I’m too tired and don’t want to lol.

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If the sex feels good, then maybe just try and gently guide him to do whatever it is that makes you climax? 
Just gentle encouragement, and I hope that he wouldn’t get offended over something like that?

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Ive been with mine going on 7 years in April. And I have reached an orgasm maybe 3 times🤷🏼‍♀️.... I don't really know how to tell him where to find the spot to make me climax. BUT it's also something only I can make myself do. It's weird. Butttt the sex is good otherwise.  Just a ton of masterbating on my part.... the other night I went down on him, full on head, my legs are up by his face, and he starts to legit like tickle my pussy outside of my underwear. 🙄🙄 Ladies like you would rub a cats chin, this is what he did....💀💀 leaving me with a tear drop size of wetness😪, meanwhile he did his whole busting a nut all over the place💦💦💦💦💦. Then when I was done washing my hands off after. We went to sleep. Like. What🤨🤨.  Hello..😠😠.. did you forget this pussy needs play too.😹 I can't freaking climax or try to climax from sucking your dick🙄🤦🏼‍♀️ sorry y'all I just needed to freaking vent. This was two nights ago, and he still hasn't even tried to make a move.... Nikki head game for the month, a 5. His head game a 1🤦🏼‍♀️ WE NEED OUR PUSSYS ATE TOO!

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My ex knew. Although it's pretty obvious when I climax. He also knew that I don't always get there so I think that made it better when it didn't happen since he didn't take it personally.

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My husband makes me orgasm every single time, multiple times. ❤️❤️
However if you’re having issues with this then you need to be upfront and completely  honest with him about it and tell him different ways to help you orgasm. Relationships are built on communication, honesty, and respect and without these, the relationship breaks down.

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I have never had an orgasm by sex 🤷🏼‍♀️ not even by oral sex... only by masturbation. I have no clue why because it feels sooo good and I am beyond wet and I do “cum” somehow, but don’t orgasm? Idk my bf doesn’t know... Idk how to tell him lol I just fake it 😅 I have for the past 3 yrs

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It’s hit or miss with my husband. But we just literally had a conversation tonight. I was naked and he was trying to get me in the mood but I wasn’t ready yet so we were talking and I was explaining what actually gets me off. Clitoral stimulation does it for me and now he knows.

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Yeah. My partner knows how my body works. He knows that sometimes I get to an orgasm and sometimes I don’t. And not getting there rarely has anything to do with him or the sex. It’s everything else in life, so he knows it’s not a big deal.

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Guys really like to hear what gets you off. If you just tell him what he needs to do I'm sure he'd be excited to try it

Does your SO know that they don’t make you orgasm?

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