So it makes sense that when a baby gets fussy, the first thing you do is check their diaper, right?

I have no idea how many times I have had to tell my DH, as well as his parents, this! Its driving me crazy! Baby is 5 weeks old and I am STILL the only one who actually checks her diaper without being told to! Im sick of having to say "Does she need changed? Did she pee? Did she poop? Did you look on the inside since the strip doesnt always turn blue? No, she isnt gassy, she needs a diaper. I can see it from here."

Why is it so hard to lift a leg to check for a blue or yellow strip?!