I dont think my spouse is attracted to me anymore, and I dont know what to do...

We have dating for over 3 years. He is 27 and I am 29. In the time we having been dating, I have gained aproximately 35lbs. I should add that I have also been pregnant three times in since 2017. The first (which I gained most the weight) resulted in my beautiful baby girl.

The second time was last year, but ended in a miscarriage.

I became pregnant again in November, and I am almost 18 weeks pregnant now.

So, I know my body has been through alot in the last couple years, and I should give it some credit. But Im just starting to feel so depressed.

My spouse never compliments me anymore. He doesnt seem interested in me and when he does try to spend time with me, I just get the feeling he is only doing it so I wont get upset. I can tell he would prefer to go play video games than hang out with me.

He doesnt seem interested in having sex with me. We used to do it quite frequently, now Im lucky if its once a month.

He reassures me that he loves me and he says hes attracted to me when I ask, but there are times when he lets insensitive things slip regarding my weight, and it just makes me feel horrible. I want to be a confidant, happy woman to be a good role model for my daughter ... but its so hard when I cant even stand my spouse seeing me naked.

Ive tried to send him "sexy" pictures to get a reaction and maybe boost my confidence ... but he doesnt even acknowledge them. I send him sexy texts to try and get him interested, like saying how horny i am etc... but it doesnt even phase him. He just "lol"s. Then I get home... we put our daughter to bed... and he heads onto his computer while I lay in bed alone.