If this isnt the right group just let me know and ill delete 😊 also..kinda long winded

So my husband has this friend, some back story on this friend fist-

He was 18 almost 19 and dating a 16 year old and got her pregnant because he refuses to use condoms. They now have a happy and healthy almost 1 year old. He is 20.

So recently my husband and I decided we are 100% ready to have a family and have started ttc. So the other day this 'friend' was bitching about how having a child ruined his life and how stupid it is to have kids young(husband and I are 19) and we are stupid for even considering it(hubby talked to him about it before we made up our mind. He didnt tell him we where when we decided we are going to). Now yesterday i bought pre-seed for the first time and posted it to my Instagram because im using it as another way to track my journey and meet other women ttc. Now this morning this 'friend' screenshots it and sends it to my hubby(who knows i posted it btw) and say and i quote "wtf is wrong with her" and tells us how retarded we are and how we "arent ready" and insults me a LOT. Now my husband is upset that im angry. This friend has insulted my every move ever since i started dating my husband and ive absolutely had enough and want to confront him about it but my husband tells me not to start drama.

Im absolutely livid over this because this was the last straw for me. Im tired of being insulted and degraded for everything. The decision was mutual between my husband and I. I dont need him going around telling people how 'retarded' my husband and I just because we are ready to be parents. I just GRR