So I just found out I’m pregnant. My sister is already 3 months pregnant with her first ever baby that her and her husband were trying for. It’s been big news in the family.

We’re very very close sisters, definitely each other’s best friends.

But me and my husband weren’t trying and we already have a kid. I’m just really worried our pregnancy is going to take attention away from hers. I don’t want her to think I purposely tried to “compete” or upstage her. Maybe I’m overthinking it but I’m definitely worried to tell her. I’m not planning on announcing it to the family until I’m 3 months along but I’d love to tell her like right now! I’m just really scared so won’t be happy.