Do I just get over it?

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I want my boyfriend to start waxing me (parts I can’t reach) as I’m sick of shaving, but I know he used to wax his ex, and I don’t know if I feel comfortable asking him cause that was something they did.... do you think he’d just be thinking of her omg idk I’m probably being an idiot

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He also kissed her, and probably put his penis in her vagina. They probably talked too, maybe even laughed and cried. Do you think he’s thinking of her when he does those things with you too?

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If you’re that comfortable with him then you should be able to just ask him for a favor. If he’s not comfortable with it he’ll say no

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Whatever he did with his ex, just let it go. We all had someone we liked/loved/been with/done things with in the past. As long as he only thinks of you and loves you, it’s all okay. If you have questions about how he thinks and feels, have an honest conversation with him.

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honestly i really feel u on this because i would be thinking of him thinking of her the whole time and that’d be too much for me and ugh!! but also he might be totally okay with it ( and not tie it to his ex) and glad you’re comfortable allowing him to do it so it’s all kinda mixed.

Do I just get over it?

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