Okay so this might be kinda controversial but please read and give me your honest opinion.

So my friend got this new job at a sports bar a while ago and i started coming up there near the end of her shift, and would hang out at the bar till she got ready to leave and we’d go out. Well, the first time i went up there this man working there started to greet me and i was like “I’m just here waiting for Molly” and kinda kept walking. But the MOMENT i laid eyes on him the thought popped in my head “oh wow, he’s super attractive” and i even told my friend that when she walks up. She informs me that that’s her manager.

So time goes on, i continue to come hand out of the weekends and i get to know this guy more and more and i start to REALLY like him personality and i just am really into him, and we become friends instantly. He gets my Snapchat and we start talking all the time, nothing sexual or flirty or anything in any way, just talking about life and each other.

I finger out that he’s engaged, but not only that, he’s been sleeping with other women on the store because his fiancée wants to wait until they get married to have sex, and they’ve been together for 5 years. Anyways he tells me this and i tell him I’m not interested in getting involved in anyone else’s love life, i don’t condone things like that because I’ve been cheated on and we agree, nothing needs to happen because SOMEONE will get hurt.

With that being said we still continued to be friends and talk and hang out and last night he FaceTimed me and we talked on the phone for 6 hours. And it quickly became clear that we were both falling for each other. He told me the moment he laid eyes on me he knew i was going to be special to him and he knew he was attracted to me. Funny, because same thing happened with me.

It was a LITERAL love at first sight situation. And never did this call get sexual or anything, we’ve never crossed lines or anything but we both have unspokenly agreed that we are absolutely perfect for each other. We say romantic things to each other all the time, without intention of flirting but simply because that’s how we feel.

I don’t know what to do, i don’t want to hope that they break up and wait for him to be mine because there’s a huge chance that won’t happen, i also don’t want to be THAT girl while he cheats on her. But with all that being said idk if i can walk away now because I’ve already started to catch feelings and i know he does too, and i know it’s not him just trying to have sex and cheat on his girl like he has before because there has yet to be anything sexual between us. Ya all just this crazy strong connection... advice???