My husband doesn't understand anything.

I'm doing well with my baby, what new moms need help with is NOT the baby , but the other things like cooking, laundry etc...

How do I get them to understand that in clear English without being rude? I am getting tired of this. Especially my husband, "if you can't cope with motherhood", I'm doing very well with my little one thank you, I didn't know the laundry and cooking was part of motherhood. Then he goes on to mention his sister doing everything, well his sister is always here , she always leaves her toddler here and come to have her mother's (my mother in law) food etc . But I am not allowed to go and stay with my own mom. I am dying to stay at my family's house and see my mom and my younger brothers. I am comfortable around them and they understand exactly what I need help with. Also my family is small and the house is so quiet. I am so upset. I am let down, by my husband first. I don't think I love him anymore. I just want to take care of my child and make him happy, he is my whole life now. But I don't say anything because my family lives in another country ( France) and it's only me and my in laws here in the Uk... So I am being mindful of what I say. My baby is my only blood here.

I'm in the phase where baby stays up all night and sleeps all day. Really I feel like asking my husband to shop for a couple of stuff is asking for a big favour

Is anyone else in the same situation ?