Every month around ovulation my DH and I always seem to have something happen around my most fertile days (O day and 2 days before, that means we cannot BD. One of us is either unwell to the point that we cannot get ‘there’; even when we try, our; our son is quite often unwell and it’s very exhausting; he has to go away for work; or he’s been out late with friends/ working and is too tired or isn’t in the mood.

It took us 2 years the first time around and that was without any little ones keeping us on our toes. They say it’s easy to conceive second time around, but I’m having my doubts. It seems almost impossible.. we’re on cycle 5 now and I’m already feeling deflated as he’s working away again (day before and of O).

I just wanted to rant and let out my frustrations, as I know this cycle is already a failure before it’s even begun.

Am I not suppose to have a second? ☹️