Hey guys , hope you’re all doing fine . Lemme just get to the point straight away . I was in a relationship for 3 years with this very abusive guy , he would control my every word and move , anyways before i ended the relationship i made a really good friend , we used to talk alot and suddenly he got feelings for me , so i told him we shouldn’t chat anymore , so i stopped chatting to him , and would check up every while , but he wanted me so badly , a few months after that i broke up with my boyfriend and a few months after that i text this guy again and we became really close friends .. I didn’t have lovey-dovey feelings towards him and i told him that ! He would tell me he loves me and i would just be really chilled about it and whenever he would get to close i would just disappear, around last year i started to catch really strong feelings for him and started to genuinely love him . He became jealous about me partying and clubbing , and we had many fights untill he gave up and said just to what ever the hell you want to do . So after our last fight Recently I’ve noticed even though im giving him my all , my attention , my time , my love , my affection, he seems unavailable most of the time , i seem to feel as if i love him way more than he loves me , and its bugging me so much , i’ve talked to him about it multiple time and he said its because he doesn’t approve of my partying ways and he feels useless because he doesn’t have a say in anything in my life . But we’ve been over it and started a new page , why is he still acting cold, could he actually have fallen less in love with me ? I don’t understand, he seems to put everything before me nowadays, wether its gaming , friends , sleep , or whatever .. i seriously dont know what to do!!!!!