She’s not born yet but I mean should I feel guilty? I understand she’s hurt but with my family how it runs the baby can have as many godparents as she likes. I asked her if she can be the godmother when I was 7 weeks pregnant and she is still considered her godmother. I have 2 best friends that I care about and they both want to be involved in her life. My other friend is in Vegas and she wanted to be the godmother of my daughter also when I founded out I was pregnant so I told her yes. I’m not going to be a bitch and say no you can’t either way if I said no even in a nice way I’m just going to feel guilty. She saw a post on Facebook where my friend posted photos of my baby shower saying I can’t wait too meet my goddaughter Lilah and that’s when she got upset. I told her that my sister with my nieces they have a few godmothers not just one. I explained everything to her and she said “if you don’t want me involved in her life you can let me know your other friend said she was going to be her godmother yeah okay.” Trying to make me feel bad and I told her your still her godmother and involved in her life. There’s so many people that care about my daughter but she’s trying to make me feel guilty I don’t know what to do I’m 33 weeks pregnant and I don’t want to stress about the whole thing that’s just how it works with my family I just needed to vent 😒 edit: this is my first baby so I’m new to this whole god-parenting thing. I just always saw it as if you were a special person growing up in my life and u wanted to be the godmother tof my baby of course im going to say yes. I’ll accept a little criticism it’s just I’m not sure how it works out that’s all