Okay so first off I didn't even want a baby shower! My mom and my SOs mom insisted on having one so I told them fine but I really dont want anything to do with getting it set up or ready. My mother in law split the job with my mom. My mom is in charge of decorating and food and mil in charge of games and prizes. My mil has done awesome has all the games ready and prizes. So I ask my mom what she has put together for decorations and a list of food. She just said nothing I've been waiting on you to buy everything. I'm so confused of what the hell shes talking about. I made it very clear I'm not doing anything other then showing up for the baby shower. I told them both that since this is what you guys want you figure out everything. When my mom said that to me I told her well I can give you money for stuff but remember I told you I didn't want this and that it was up to you guys to get it together. She came back at me telling me that she doesn't have time because she works full time and has 4 other kids to worry about. I said okay that's fine. why would you make plans on doing the baby shower and then a few weeks before it's time you tell me your not doing anything. So now I'm stuck figuring stuff out for this baby shower I didn't want. I cant really cancel it because my mil has put alot of money into games and paid for the party room (nonrefundable.) And we are expecting at least 20 people. Mind you I'm on modified bed rest so I'm not even supposed to be doing very much. I dont even know where to start. I've never even been to a baby shower. 😫 I guess can anyone recommend a store/website to were I can start buying decorations. And maybe a list of food😭 or even what the hell I'm supposed to do thanks. 🙃