My sister has two children and knows I’m TTC. She was also heavier than me like 4 months ago. Now she lost all this weight and her suggestion to me was “get active and loose weight”. I know I weigh more than I should but I don’t have a car right now or a job and it’s winter so it’s freezing outside. Plus I have my step son a lot. I don’t think she’s trying to be mean but doesn’t mean I’m not hurt by it. Hearing the reason I’m not getting pregnant is because I’m fat definitely isn’t helping my mood lately... btw I didn’t even ask for her opinion when she told me this..