Trigger question: I just found out Im pregnant. My bestie lost as baby beginning of January at 18wks 😞 she knows we were trying so it won't be a surprise but it feels like loose/loose 🤷 When should i tell her?

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My thought would be to tell her sooner rather than later just so it comes from you and so she doesn’t hear it through other people. Good luck! ❤️

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The tact you take when you tell her is more important than when. Good luck!

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I would wait the 12 weeks, but at the same time, the same week I lost my third, my close friend told me she was pregnant, I was still pumped for her.

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Whenever you want to. Just be gentle. And as exciting as it is for you, coming from someone who’s lost 3.. don’t be gushing to her about how excited you are, all of your milestones etc.

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I would just tell her ASAP honestly.

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When you tell her, make sure she knows that she can be honest with you if talking about it ever makes her sad and that you can change the subject. There are plenty of others you can talk about baby to and she should feel safe to be able to be honest about what she needs from you.

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Noooo is wait as long as possible to tell her. It’s going to be painful for her let her heal a little while longer

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I’ve had two miscarriages, and although I definitely feel a tinge a jealousy, it doesn’t make me less happy for my friends. I’d tell her maybe after 8 weeks, but prior to telling other people. If she found out from someone else or from a general announcement that will make it a lot more hurtful. Good luck! 🍀

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I would tell her when you're ready and maybe over the phone in case she wants to mourn her own loss some more afterwards. Just be gentle with her and don't feel guilty about this amazing news. She may hurt for her, but I'm sure she will be happy for you.

Trigger question: I just found out Im pregnant. My bestie lost as baby beginning of January at 18wks 😞 she knows we were trying so it won't be a surprise but it feels like loose/loose 🤷 When should i tell her?

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