Ok my husband hasn't done a damn thing around the house to get ready for the baby. I've asked him to do things and it's never done so I just do it myself. My gma asked him to paint the deck and his ass jumps up and gets to work. I felt like crap. Why can't you jump up for things for our baby.  It's like damn I know my place in this house now. I always thought happy wife happy life. Where the hell is my help?? We plan to move in the spring. I'm ready to go now. With or without him. Take care of your fake wife and do all her damn chores. I don't even want to go home anymore. I'd rather stay at a hotel at this point.