Okay so call me a selfish bitch I dont care.

So I was joking around with my boyfriend because we were watching a rom com and it was the wedding scene obviously. We've been together for 4 years and we just found out that I'm 21 weeks pregnant (how am I just finding out? I know your thinking it. I had no symptoms and and my period has always been irregular

Didn't even think about being pregnant until I ate pizza and I threw it up 10 min later. ) But no ring. Not even a promise ring. And I joking said " I can't wait for that day" and I grabbed his hand and I felt him tense up. I asked him what was wrong and he said word for word. " I was talking to Justin and I think he's right about a wedding. It's just a way the government keeps a grip on you." So our friend Justin and his wife have six kids and have been together since highschool. They don't want to be legally married because again the government. But SHE HAS A RING. So I got a little upset and asked him "So you don't want to marry me?" And he said "No of course I do. But the government." And I just was blunt and said "well will I at least get a ring like Justins wife?" And he said "No it's just want of money."

At this point I would be happy with a fucking ring pop. I already know you guys are gonna call me selfish but you don't understand. Our first month of dating I had to bail him out for a child support warrant. It was $700. Our 3rd month I had to flee with him to California because some girls had a fake rape charge against him and he wanted me to tell his parents in person that they are lying. So yeah I want a fucking ring.

Edit: I know they were read flags. He was in a bad part in his life like. But he's fine now.😂

For the rape charge the people were mentally unstable and cried wolf before with different men.

And he got the warrant because the place he was working closed down and his babymom fought to raise by $1000. Because he wouldn't let him change his babies last name to guys she cheated on him with. He is now caught up to the penny oh child support.

He wants to be committed to me...since we talked whenever he's talking about me he been referring me as his wife. But I look silly without a ring or anything. We told his family the big news a couple days later and his mom told me he asked for he family ring when she comes out. (Most of his family lives in California we live in Vegas. And they came to visit)