I split up with my baby’s dad whilst 8 months pregnant because I couldn’t take the cheating & lying anymore. He’d said horrible things about me & even told people our baby wasn’t his :(

When I went into labour he wanted to be there so I called & he lied saying work wouldn’t let him leave. I then lived with him for a month to see if we could work things out but we didn’t.

He treated me horribly so we both decided it was best I move states to be with my family as I had no support.

Fast forward a month later & I found out he had been seeing another girl for months. Hence almost missing the birth of our baby, he never spent time with bub because he was always out sneaking around.

I have to sort out child support. The government is making me do it. My ex wanted a private agreement but I said no as he is very unreliable with money and still currently owes me $500 that he will not return.

He makes no effort to ask me how our boys doing but is first to play the sympathy card and say how horrible I am for leaving even though he wanted me to because he can’t handle the responsibility of caring for our baby.

He’s extremely annoyed about having to pay child support and I’m scared he’ll turn bitter and go back on his word so we’ll have to move states.

I have no family where he lives , no friends, his family are nasty & controlling, I had very bad mental health due to the way he treated me which is why it is so important for me to be around family.

I just got out of the worst mental state & now have a house of my own , am getting a new car & a licence finally. Our life is so happy here & we are in a beautiful place.

I’m so scared of my life being turned upside down. He really is that petty and will cause drama so I have to move back, not because he wants to see his son but because he hasn’t gotten his own way.

Any advice 😫