Irritating husband
I have a question for you experienced moms out there, I just gave birth for the first time to my daughter 1 month ago! I’m not super experienced because this is my first but from what I’ve been told and read a 1 month old baby should still be eating at least a few times at night! My daughter isn’t much of a cryer unless she is getting her diaper changed or unless she is super hungry! Usually when she is hungry she sucks her fingers, makes noises, squirms around!! I know when my baby is hungry, I don’t have to let her get to the point of crying to know she is hungry! Since she was born my husband has been the only one working so I’ve been the one getting up at night to care for our baby, she usually wakes up about 3 times at night to eat! But I’ve just recently gone back to work three days out of the week and my husband has been caring for her those nights so I can sleep, he insists that she can sleep through the night and doesn’t need to be fed because he wants to sleep! He says that if she is hungry she will cry, which she usually doesn’t cry much! So she will be awake, making sounds, sucking her fingers, etc and my husband will re-swaddle her and stick a binky in her mouth so she falls asleep again, which she usually does! I tell him she’s hungry but he doesn’t listen and says that the only reason I wana feed her is because I just want things to be done my way!! Like I don’t care about it getting done my way I’m just worried and care about my baby! He gets so mad at me about it!! So I lay in bed hearing my baby and don’t end up getting sleep because I’m worried all night! is it okay for her to sleep through the night at one month old without eating or am I being a new paranoid mom?
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