Hello ladies,

Well I wanted to talk about my story with my body and all of the changes I’m going through. I’ve always been self conscious about my body and my weight, and now that I’m pregnant my mind is overwhelming me and I’m wildly emotional. Being “fat” has always been one of my biggest fears even though all of my friends constantly remind me of how “Thin” they think I am. It just sucks bc now that I’m getting bigger I’m having issues with my weight gain. I feel like I’m no longer appealing and I’m just a huge over weight person. I’m constantly looking to my partner for reassurance and on making sure he’s still going to love me while I’m fat. His remarks are that “He loves me regardless” and “You’re not fat bc you’re morbidly obese, you’re growing a whole human so it’s fine”. It helps but I still wake up everyday thinking about my weight. Do any of you ladies have any suggestions on how to help me get through this or to maybe help ease my mind?