So I’ve been dating a guy for a few months. Things are great EXCEPT I feel like we never have sex!!! My previous relationships I’m used to having lots of sex... I don’t even need it as much as that but like more than 2 times a month would be nice. I have said things but i feel that makes it worse and he gets more “insecure “. He’s only 36... the last few men I have been with have been much older and they had more interest. Ughhh. I really like him but I feel like this is going to continue to be an issue for me. It’s not necessarily the act of sex but more the intimacy and affection I crave. Ugh I feel like I can’t say anything again because it makes him feel worse. He says he’s fat (which he’s not) he’s 6’”4’ and a big built guy but I’m super attracted to him.

And then he says “don’t worry we will have lots of sex”. Ummm.... well when cause I’d like to fast forward to then!!!!

Ughhhh!!! Has anyone else experienced this? Did it get better?? I don’t want to end things but fuck I just wanna feel wanted.