Kill joy :(

Melanie

So Im 20 wks + 3 days. Today I bought my baby some gender neutral onesies and a bib. I was so excited. I showed my mom and she said it was too early to be buying anything. I asked her why and she said a lot of reasons. I walked away because I didnt really want to hear it. She dampened my joy a bit. I just wanted her to smile and say how cute they were. She's been a debby downer since telling her. I tell her my back hurts, she says its too early. I tell her I feel the baby moving sometimes, she says its too early. Its annoying af. I may be being overally emotional but this is one journey I'd like to share with her but I think Im going to stop so I can enjoy it fully. Idk Im a FTM, do you guys think its too early to shop for baby? I just wanted to get a few things...