SO says he wants baby, but pulls out ?

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Hello ladies me and my SO have been been together a little over a year. The baby topic has came up many times since we are living together along with my SO 3 yr old son. We've agreed that since we are not using birth control , pregnancy would be okay if it did happen. But lately my SO has been pulling out. Any one else in the same boat ? It makes me feel very upset and sad. It's such a hard feeling to describe, especially when your ready to become a mom. How should I handle this situation?

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It's sounds to me he is ok with you getting pregnant not that he necessarily WANTS you to be pregnant. I would talk to him and see if he wants to TTC or if he is only OK if it accidentally happens.

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He said it would be ok IF it happened but not that he's wanting to actively try. You've only been together a year. It's not something I would personally strive for but of its something you're set on you have to talk to him.

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Yeah. He's definitely saying an oops baby is ok but he doesn't want to actively ttc. Talk to him but don't pressure him. You've only been together for around a year.

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Have a baby after getting married. Provide a stable home for your child. His 3yr old is already growing up in a broken home, would you want that for your child down the road?

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My husband did that for the first month after I had my Mirena removed. I felt the same way. He told me I was pressuring him. When I quit talking about it all the time, he decided it was time.

SO says he wants baby, but pulls out ?

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