Does this mean I'm out for this month?

Mariah

I've been charting my cycles and this month was my first month in 10 months that I had a LH surge and a positive OPK for 3 days! DH and I, BD on the appropriate days and I was super hopeful. AF is due in 5 days. I'm 9DPO and I'm now having spotting, cramping and a runny nose. I haven't had spotting like this before (sorry for the TMI) but its thick and a red/brown color. What do we think ladies? It's getting harder and harder each month not getting that BFP 😭