Today was my 16 week appointment and the doctor came in had me lay back didn't tell me what he was going to do, once I glanced down and saw a device in his hand so now I'm saying to myself ok hes going to listen to the babys heart... he jammed that doppler into my stomach so rough I was taken back. We hear the heartbeat which was only for 3 seconds, then hes like everything looks great, helped me sit up asked me if I had any questions, (by this time I was irritated) I'm like "nope" knowing I was lying but I'm ready to get out of there by this point. Wtf my appointment took 15 minutes, it was so rushed and I've never been to a doctor who didnt spend more time going over what to expect over the next 4 weeks or even talk about my birthing plan. I'm so over this doctor, he didnt go over test results from last visit either. I'm ready to change providers, I hate to do this but I feel like its necessary. Not to mention my day already started of shitty by arguing with my husband who I swear his only goal is to make me upset and agitated during this pregnancy, wants a healthy baby so bad but likes to stress me and fight with me! I've been overeating so much so now I've put on so much weight the doctor told me I have to stop eating carbs and plenty of veggies 😡. I'm so overwhelmed right now having a horrible day. Sorry for the long rant, I just dont know what to do.