Dilating?

Kasey
Any of you moms who have been pregnant before every checked your own cervix? I have been having this weird cramping/tightening/pain since last Thursday and my gut has been telling me that it's not just Braxton hicks. I used to check my cervix when TTC so I know what it used to feel like. I checked today and it was very very soft and open, about the width of my finger, which technically would be like 1.5-2 cm???? Freaking me out because I'm only 28 weeks. I haven't had any bleeding or anything that looks like my mucous plug or my water breaking which is a plus. My next f/u is in 2 days, but my OB office usually doesn't start checking you until 32 weeks. I don't know if I should be concerned, or to just stop looking stupid do up on the internet! Also, my mom was 50% effaced and 3cm dilated at 26 weeks with my sister who was born premature. I'm not sure if premature labor can run in the family?
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Ta

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I don't believe premature labor in of itself can run in families. I would definitely just mention it to your dr at next visit since it's so soon. They may not have planned on checking, but if you have a concern that is what these appointments are also for. I would also not check your cervix anymore on your own. It can cause infection, especially if something was going on (even with clean hands it's not a good idea in pregnancy). Like Shelby said, you can be dilated for a while before anything happens, so even if you were slightly it may be ok. I think best option is to just err on side of safety and mention it to your dr so they can make sure all is ok. I'm happy you have a visit soon. Keep us posted. 

Ta

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Kasey, how are you? Did you check with your dr?

Sh

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I would definitely stop looking stuff up, but if you do have concerns call your doctor or mention it at your next appointment. Women can be dilated for weeks before birth, but like I said if you are truly concerned let your doctor know asap 

Ka

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Stop looking stuff up ***