Can I get some suggestions/ opinions

So back story, I'm 35weeks 2days, I'm considered high risk and go to the doctor every week. Originally my doctor was going to induce me at 37 or 38 weeks because I have antibodies in my blood and there's a chance of my baby becoming anemic so I go every week to get ultra sounds to monitor for it. So far so good no signs of her being anemic. Now the doctor said shed gonna check to see if I'm dialated any at 37 weeks and go from there on inducing me or waiting a week and see if I go into labor on my own. What I need opinions or suggestions on is I want to make a post on facebook about not announcing I'm in labor or the baby's here until me or my husband does so first and that we don't want visitors for the first few hours. (No negativity please, it will be better for me to just make a public post rather then send private messages and make it pin pointed on anyone) my dad and his mom are facebook happy and have to post anything and everything they see on there and I feel like they'd be the ones to post about me Being in labor or the baby being here and posting pictures before me or my husband get to. When should I post it? Is there anything else that y'all have found to make it more enjoyable? I'm a ftm and want to try to breastfeed if that helps any. Also should I pack a hospital bag now or continue to wait? I have the baby's stuff packed and carseat and everything in the car already.