Am I Overreacting? Thoughts??

Julie • Doggy Lover, NY

So ever since i was little i have found my dads porn stuff here and there by accident. A few times maybe like three we shared a room like a hotel or i used to sleep in their room when i was younger and Id hear their whispers and dirty talk and it was so cringey and scarring. He has always walked around in boxers when at home and sometimes id accidentally get a glimpse of his dick . Sometimes i catch him staring at other girls even young ones like in their 20s. I just hate the horniness like keep that shit to yourself!! And recently he made a comment to me saying “no disrespect but your titties are getting big” and i really didnt like that comment but he says he doesnt mean it to be fresh. Right now my mom left to work and he is in the other room whispering loudly and moaning i can hear it all the way from my room. Anyways, lately i have been distant with him and i dont like wearing short shorts around him or shirts that are a little too revealing for my comfort when he’s around. He’s a good dad and respects me but im just cold with him as if he did something to me. I dont like hugging him because obviously my breasts would be against him in a hug and i dont like being touched by him at all even if though it’s harmless. Sometimes he wants me to kiss him on the mouth but like not in a bad way. I do it to my mom all the time but i really wont want to do that with him. Even though he’s never done anything to me, and he’s been a great father, am I overreacting or wrong to be so cold?