So I’m at my in laws house right now with my husband and my 3 week old. Im in a different room feeding her and getting ready to put her down for bed, and I hear them talking in the next room. My FIL just told him “these girls will make you get them pregnant, have your baby, and then yell at you when you don’t do everything she wants”. Then after that he said “that’s why you gotta find a girl who ....” and I didn’t hear anything else after that. Like what the fuck????? We’ve been married since July last year and I didnt MAKE him get me pregnant. And I don’t yell at him for not doing what I want. I yell at him because he doesn’t help much with the baby. He hardly changes her diaper when I ask, doesn’t try to feed her bottles when I pump, and hands her over to me as soon as she cries. And his dad is giving him advice on other girls to be with???? WTAF. What do I do/say? Or do I just keep my mouth shut and not make things awkward. Omg my blood is boiling right now.

My fil has always been an asshole, he’s super loud and cocky and just annoying. I don’t like him and I never have. (My mil is amazing, love her so much so she’s not part of the problem lol)