Okkk so each time I wanna play with my self I always try to get myself horny and u know

But I can’t I just can’t !! 😭

I can never get my self horny, I tried shower , lube, touching myself certain ways , anything I can think of that can get a girl horny and wet enough to play with herself but I just can’t !!

You may suggest using a partner or something but I had a sex partner before and when we tried I wouldn’t be horny and when we have sex it just hurts!! So I try playin with my self and it don’t work eother !! Help? Thoughts plz