Do I have to allow my inlaws around my kids my husband and I are at our wits ends with his family all they are is disrespectful and mean and all they do is start drama and talk crap on me... All they care about is their happiness they get mad because we don't allow them to control our lives they want things to go their way and throw fits when they don't. My mil has done awful things to our family and my fil has tried to teach my child to cuss tried to get him to drink beer makes me so uncomfortable to leave my son over there they are not good people they lie they steal and treat others horribly... So do I have to allow them to see my kids? I guess my thing is why would I want my kids to learn those types of behaviors?! So is it wrong for me to keep my kids away from people like that?