hey guys,

so i’ve only recently started having sex and it has been interesting. i enjoy it, however i wish i could orgasm. i’ve only been able to orgasm while masturbating not using my hands (anyone else use a clarisonic? lmao) and i always am left feeling unfulfilled when my boyfriend comes and i don’t. i’m glad that he can, but part of me wants to come too. i just take forever to come. he goes down on me before we actually get into things but he just doesn’t do it long enough. are there any recommendations? either for positions or things my boyfriend can do for me? keep in mind that i’m newer to this :)