Alright so I work with children at both my jobs and I feel like I’m at an amazing place in life. I’ve started my career, I have great friends, and I’m supported in everything I do. But for a long time I’ve felt like something’s missing. I’m not good with relationships, but I’ve definitely had a few good ones. When I talk to my coworkers or other friends they always talk about their kids. Even the children I teach have asked me about my kids but I don’t have any. I feel like I’m ready to have a kid emotionally and physically. But I’m only like 80% financially able to and I don’t have a significant other. I know money isn’t a big factor though because there’s always help out there. Mentally I feel like a 30 year old but I’m only 19. 😩 I love to hang out with my friends and family an I know that having a kid would limit that but in my heart I still want one. I know that my mother wants me to have a kid sooooo bad since she’s mentioned it multiple times but Im not 100% sure about my father (I know he’d love them no matter what. I just don’t know if he’s ready for a grandchild?) I know my solution isn’t to get a boyfriend or a husband. As much as that would be nice, I just want a kid... am I thinking reasonably?