Sex toy and lubricant

I have a Soft Jelly Material vibrator, I don't use it anymore so my boyfriend has started using it on himself to spice things up .

He used our silicone lubricant.

I've looked on the site I got the vibrator from it just says "use a drop of lube of your choice ".

The lube says

"Compatible with all types of condoms and toys without damaging them."

But then i read one website that says silicone can melt jelly material.

Which is it? Will it damage it or not,anybody know?

Pay day we will be buying new toys and lubes but being we do anal, silicone is needed,guess we will just invest in alot of condoms too for that 🤷🏻‍♀️