One kind of attention

So my husband only wants to be sexual with me...it’s like the only way he can connect with me is on a sexual level. Cuddles, massages, and even just kissing only happens a few times out of the year unless I beg him. When I ask him to do those things he clearly doesn’t want to but the moment I mention sex he is all for it.

It’s very frustrating and just at a loss🙁

Any suggestions? Anyone else going through this?