Virginity & a new love interest?

Question

I'm 15 and I think I'm ready to lose my virginity. I've just been Hornier than usual and I don't have any sex toys so I'm not completely satisfied. I'm single but I also don't want to rush into anything and end up becoming a teen mom (I don't have anything against teen mothers!). I want to enjoy my first time, with someone I love and adore...but I've kinda had the hots for my new teacher lately. I know it's wrong but I see him staring at me sometimes and I just can't stop thinking about him. It's not like he's 50 years older than I am. He's 28 but I don't want to be misguided and make a fool of myself. It sucks because Im a little more mature than everyone else my age and I'm interested in older guys. Any help!!!!??

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As a Teenager your hormones are all over the map especially sexually. It's fine to wait until you find someone to connect with and give it up to them like you've explained, just means you have a level head on your shoulders. There's nothing wrong with being more mature for that age, even I was to the point people mistook me for in my 20's to 30's. As for the teacher, I'd leave that alone, he's 28 so if anything were to happen he could lose his job and get in trouble legally and if he's interested in someone your age then that just looks like he's into kids and I don't feel you deserve that. There's nothing wrong with liking older or being with older, but make sure it's with the right guy, and make sure your parents know, just so you know where they stand and know if they will be fine with it because I know parents who wouldn't be and would press charges for statutory rape. Take things slow, enjoy your teen years because it goes quick and do what you want and feel is best. Maybe get a friend or someone to get you a toy for alone time or bring you to get one? May help in that area if you're able to get something.

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You're 15, despite what you might think, everyone's not having sex and if I were you if hold onto my virginity as long as possible. You're going through puberty but I honestly just you should just chill out and please don't persue your teacher. You're 15, he's 25, if he was interested in you which i hope he's not you could get him in tons of trouble. Enjoy your childhood there is plenty of time for sex when you're older and can deal with the emotional stuff that comes with having sex. I promise you'll regret it if you have sex now. Just relax and I'm not saying there's anything wrong with having sexual feelings that's natural, try masturbating and get to know your body before you consider having sex.

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Do not lose your virginity for a reason like "I'm hornier lately." There are times when I'm a lot more aggressive but that doesn't mean I get to go yell at people or start a fight just cuz I'm feeling scrappy. What you're considering is illegal. I know it seems kinda romantic and even flattering to think a 28 year old is interested in you, but if he is that will not end well for him or for you. 
You really should wait until your hormones have calmed down and you can talk to someone about this like your mom? Or any older person who has your best interest at heart.

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I'm honestly the exact same way. But if I were you, don't do it. You'll regret it. Buy a toy if you really want to be sexually satisfied

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PLEASE think long & hard about when & where & who you lose it to. I have mine away at 18 (I was the last of my group of friends) & I still think I should've waited. I've been with a man I love for 2 1/2 years now & every time I think about it, I wish I would've waited. I don't regret having sex before because it does take away the desire or curiosity of sleeping with anyone else, but it would also have been amazing if I could've just given it to him & had my relationship be SO much more personal. It's so special & don't be dumb & ruin it for yourself or your potential life mate. :) it's amazing, but only when you're with the right person! :)

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Of course you're hornier, your hormones are all crazy. I personally think 15 is too young. I'm almost 22, still a virgin, and I don't regret a thing.

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I would definitely say wait. I lost my virginity early on I was 15 as well, having sex with someone can lead to things, emotional attachment and so on. I would def stay away from your teacher I went to a high school where there were a few teachers arrested and charged for having sexual relationships with underage students. I know sex until marriage can be really hard but I encourage it because I'm a teen mother myself.

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just whatever you do, make sure that when you do lose your virginity, think about it long term. and be careful that you don't get to attached because you don't want to get your heart broken. as for the teacher, I wouldn't make any moves unless he did. you and he could get in serious trouble so just be careful.

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I know it's hard because you want to lose it but also want to wait. I say wait for the right guy because it'll be worth it and I know you're eager to lose your virginity now but you're only 15, you have the rest of your life to have sex so don't be in any hurry to lose it. and as for the teacher, that's not the best idea because it's illegal. yeah he's 28 so he's not old but don't forget you're still 15 so it's still a big age difference and illegal on so many levels. it would just be smarter to not get involved with him and save yourself from a lot of drama.

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