Water broke...or maybe not.

Second time mom here & so confused! With my first my water undoubtedly broke so I knew to go to the hospital. I'm 38+6 today and am not sure if my water is leaking or I'm peeing myself. 😁 This morning I had a wet spot about the size of a baseball in my pants. I've had a few half dollar sized spots since and red mucus discharge. I hate to go in just to be sent home though. Thoughts? Oh and no real intense timable contractions.