What changed?

My husbands 46

I am 34

We went from sex 1-2 times a month on his own terms, he always said for many many years he couldnt get it up

now we are having sex 4 times a week and he is wanting to do things he NEVER wanted before hand jobs, blow jobs, eating me out, sucking on my nipples, kissing my inner thights, kissing more....different positions...

like this whole time idk was he able to get it up on his own the last 13 years?

idk what changed?

confused....

This is new and been ongoing the last couple months