Wanna have sex please no judgements

I wanna lose my virginity and get it over with I honestly don't want a relationship, I wanna hookup with guys without the attachment. I know to be careful but is there anything to help with the first time? Does being drunk help? I'm thinking of going away on my 22nd birthday in May and loosen up a bit. Has anyone lost it to a hookup? Please no judgements, I tried waiting for a relationship but I'm not in a mindset for that and tbh I don't know if I'll ever be but I don't wanna miss out on being young and having sex.