Long Distance gender reveal and shower

So we are 2,000 miles away from any friends and family. We are pregnant with our 4th. I will be finding out the gender alone since we have no one to watch our other two boys besides their dad and they can't be in the room. I need some ideas on how to do a gender reveal/baby announcement. Also, if we end up having a girl instead of another boy we want to do a baby shower but not sure how being away from everyone. Any ideas would be greatly appreciated.