Feeling frustrated and trying to keep my stress down

Ok lady's I'm 33 and my cycle was due on 9/12 but nothing so me an my man which is 29 was so anxious an very hopeful. So we go through the weekend and nothing I go this morning to use the restroom an I am spotting but it's lite! I so confused an sad cause I'm so ready to be a mommy! If my cycle says should I still go an take a test? Has this happened to anyone else? I'm not really cramping or anything else. I guess wish me baby dust next time πŸ˜”πŸ˜. Advise is needed.