How do you keep the semen in? 🤷🏻‍♀️🍆

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This may sound naive but please keep in mind I’ve only ever had sex without a condom with my husband and even that is just this past month. So I really have no idea. 
He comes fully inside of me and waits to pull out but even while he is still in there his little guys start gushing out! That’s normal right? He isn’t producing a crap ton of semen vs the average guy? Or I’m not just receive them? 
Anyway after he pulls out it seems like more is outside of me than in and if we have sex in the morning even if I lay there for an hour on my back when I get up more gush out! 
I thought they would know which direction to swim lol but they seem to have it all backwards!  😂 🤣😂🤣😂🤣🤷🏻‍♀️

Accepted Answer

I let my husband just lay there still inside me so they can't escape!

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What comes out after is not the sperm just the semen, the sperm swim away pretty quickly the liquid carrier fluid is left behind. You do not have to lay there for an hour! I do 5-10 minutes legs up and that’s it, even that is not shown to have any effect one way or another.

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I usually lay there a minute and then go to the bathroom to wipe off whatever is on the outside. 
Just make sure you don’t laugh while you wait

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Umm... you don’t. The sperm swim, and semen coats the sperm allowing it to swim. A tiny drop has millions of sperm. It doesn’t matter if half of it runs out. These are all wives tales and doesn’t effect your chances of becoming pregnant.

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Hey lady! That is completely normal! They say that sperm gets to where it needs to go immediately upon ejaculation, so the majority of what he shoots out is going to come back out!

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Thank you everyone! Your comments and poll results were so helpful!

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I never noticed where it goes. He goes in me and I got on about my day lol 😆

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The sperm are smarter than you think! They will get where they’re going after ejaculation, which happens deep inside you. and what comes out is essentially left overs lol diva cup seems like a recipe for infection, and legs up is fun but doesn’t do much either. Once he pulls himself out everything is where it’s gonna go already and if you wanna do legs up for 5-10 mins go for it but it’s more important to just go to the bathroom to clear things out that are trying to come out

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It gets where it needs to go in seconds you can lay down for a few minutes if you want to but it’s not necessary to take any other drastic measures

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After we did the deed, I laid there for only like 5 mins. He was already out and then I felt the rest gush out so I went to the bathroom and then took a shower..... I’m 20 weeks pregnant. 🤷‍♀️ so I think it’s just exact timing. Which can be very hard.

How do you keep the semen in? 🤷🏻‍♀️🍆

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