Is my doctor just rude or?

So I went for my gender ultrasound on March 21st, it was almost over and I asked the lady “so can you tell what it is” and she said she’s not supposed to say but it’s a boy. So like uh..

Then I call my doctors 3 days later saying “hey can my doctor call me and just answer a question about my ultra sound” they said what question.. I said gender. They called me back 2 weeks later and said “healthy ultrasound photos, he will discuss more at your next appointment..”

Like what the h*ll ?! Why can’t he look at the penis shot (I seen on the ultrasound bored when I was there) and confirm it. It’s my moment not his.