No sex life

It’s been one hectic year. I found out my dad had a terminal illness when I was pregnant. My dad quickly progressed and when I had my baby he wasn’t able to walk. I started to help care for him and also suffered from a bit of postpartum. I now have a 5 month baby and my dad recently passed. To say I was stressed was an understatement.

My husband has been pretty good with helping me while all this was going on. I know we all have sexual needs but I just haven’t been in the mood with everything that happened. I know I need to do more to make my husband feel special but sometimes it’s hard. Plus, my husband can be an ass whole at times and make little comments. I don’t EVER forget these comments. How am I suppose to be in the mood when I constantly hear his bullshit comments but then later apologizes and says he’s joking!!

Examples:

“That’s why guys cheat” ( I don’t believe he’s cheated but now it makes me think)

“I’m getting so tired of you and your attitude ”

“ You’re making me consider divorcing you”

“When are we going to have sex”

“When are you going to leave my house” (we own a house together)

All these types of things are said in heated arguments.

I made a statement to him saying, “ How do you want to divorce me but still want to have sex with me? So then you want to use me”

I’m just mentally exhausted and marital problems isn’t something else I wanted to deal with 😔!